Dad I haven't shared this, and most days it still doesn't feel real. My dad battled leukemia for 6 years, and he fought hard. He had a whole team of prayer warriors behind him, and he held them all in his prayers as well. On May 23, this year he got his wish, he woke […]


I’m strong as hell, I can take a fair amount of shit. When I break, I break hard, and it takes a long time to recover. When you push me beyond my last fuck, don’t expect some fucks to miraculously regenerate- they’re gone.  I’ve had a rough couple months, with an even rougher couple weeks […]

Let Go, Let God

Life has been a little too “lifey” lately. And I’ve been stressed to about my max.  I’m a worrier, I know it. I can’t turn it off. I can do a lot of things, but turning off my worry just isn’t one of them.  I’m not sure why I decided to write this, but I […]

Brushing the Dust Off

It’s been a while since I’ve posted here.  New adventures, new friends, new choices…. all of which have molded me into the person I am today. After all, we are constantly changing; I’m not the same person I was a week ago, a month ago, a day ago, a year ago…. I like me, and […]

12 years….

It’s been 12 years since my mom lost her battle with cancer. Some days it seems like yesterday, and others it seems like forever ago. I know she’s cheering me on from above, my cheerleader from above. I know one day we will be together again, and I look forward to that hug.  Friends In […]

A little inspiration

I’m going to say this once, and I’m going to say it here.  Remember that saying about getting more flies with honey than vinegar (or however it goes)? While I’m not 100% sure while we’d want to attack more flies, it’s got quite a bit of truth behind it in our personal lives.  So while […]


So Tuesday night I went to bed 32 years old, and Wednesday morning I woke up 33 years old.  Why do we celebrate birthday annually? We age gradually, and sometimes gracefully, over the course of a year. So why is it that you go to bed one age and wake up another? My son is […]